The DCOE has created a toolkit for Military members and their families called This Emotional Life. This toolkit is filled with information to help better understand the range of emotions and stress that can accompany deployments (before, during, and after). Also provides resources to help with the transitions.
The price is free (and so is shipping, even though it says shipping charges may apply).
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